Long time, no me, huh? But I'm here, now, alive and before y'all to present my
So why the cheery title, you might ask. We-ell, I'm fine now, so I'm happy. Plus teachers decided to go on a strike so we got a holiday today. Plus my Saturday class got cancelled. Plus, people have been nice. Well, some people have been nice. *hint hint* Plus I've been taking full advantage of my illness and watching movies and getting mum to cook stuff, while my poor classmates sit in stuffy rooms listening to droning voices. Ha! And it's MUN time again! So plenty of reasons to be happy.
And I've been doing alot of thinking. There was precious little I could do in the fevered state, but thinking was one of them. Life is so hectic and fast today, isn't it? Even falling ill is forbidden. I guess I was just going along, forgetting my friends and family and other things that are important, pushing them aside, saving them up for later. But life has a way of pulling you up and stopping you till you take a frank, hard look at what you're doing. I guess I've learnt me lesson.
And people and their priorities are so...wrong. Like this teacher asked us whether we would choose a long happy life or a moment of glory, and people chose a long happy life. But a long happy life without success? No sir. Except, well, me and a few others, who protested vehemently. People are too ambitious. They're forgetting the simplicity, the pleasures of life. They're all too concerned with making it big, with showing others how well they've done for themselves. They don't have time for love till their careers are set. They want to leave their homes, they want their space. They look at a person keeping in mind his or her popularity, sense of fashion, money. Old virtues like trust and honesty are so passe.
I do hope I just got carried away and didn't paint a very accurate picture. I really do hope so.
For me happiness always comes first. And I sure hope it stays that way. And happiness can come without success. Happiness can come if you want it to, from the simplest things around you.
Like taking time to get to know a new person, and discovering things I never knew or expected.
Like the color of the sunset and the fluffy white clouds I saw on the way back from Barista.
Like the butterflies that flutter on the flowery bushes as I enter college, and just about make my day.
Like a friend who messages a dozen times to find out if I'm okay.
PS- See the video on the right. :)

15 comments:
AWWWWW. Isn't this the cutest post ever?
I dunno, I think you're hardly the kind of person who'll lose tuoch with life...you know what I mean? And if I ever do, I'm counting on you to bring me back to earth...like you always do.
And reading between the lines, you're sorry. Its ok, don't worry. I'll message you 100 tomes a day if I have to. ;)
Oh lord you're so right! I live for the small happy things in life, you know. I do that all the time. I go on the road and I see some leaves falling off a tree and it makes me smile. That's how I think life should be lived. Sadness is inevitable but that's what makes life interesting isn't it. I see people studying and leaving everything in their life just to become something great. But do they attain happiness when they have become that? You never know. I don't say that one shouldn't work hard, it's just that you shouldn't isolate yourself from the beauty of life.
Oi, and I told Nidhi this scooter waala kissa of mine and freaked her into calling your mother and asking about you. So mereko bhi thoda bhaav chahiye okay? :P Thanks. :P Good to know you're okay now. Cheers :D
Wow!!After quite sumtym,der u are..Nice post this last one.. :)
Hi ,
I was reading ur blog posts and found some of them to be wow.. u write well.. Why don't you popularize it more.. ur posts on ur blog ‘reflections’ took my particular attention as some of them are interesting topics of mine too;
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Cheers,
Get well soon! Me too feeling feverish today. Damn rainy season.
@nids: Gee, thanks! And worry not, I shall be there for you (if I'm hopefully not floating on clouds =))
@dang: You hit the nail on the head :) And what people don't realise is that it's actually this kinda attitude that'll carry them far.
And oh the scooter idea was yours??? I was So puzzled when she asked me if I'd fallen off a scooter, I'm not prone to doing stuff like that! lol
@multi: Thankee sire :)
@ray: Hi, and thanks for dropping by! I will defintely check out the site, thank you!
@reema: I'm fine now, thankfully! ANd yes, damn the weather! :P
hey.. tht was so deep n thoughtfull. like u said wat v all feel .. n in such easy words. i luv ur imagination n observation... reveals so much bout ur soul... puts u in a new light altogethr..
Godblees darlin
Arey it wasn't just an idea. I actually had an accident like that and I explained it to her in vivid detail and then told her how my best friend never called me after that accident and that scared her into calling you. :P
People go so crazy about success, they forget what the real purpose of success.The real purpose of success is to make one happy. Everything else is secondary.
It doesnt matter if you are brilliant at what you do or mediocre at wht you do. All that matters is whether u r happy or not.
as i once made up in a moment of frustration, "Excellence cannot exist without mediocrity"
a week ago here in IBM, the instructor asked everyone to draw a picture of where they would see themselves in 5 years time. Almost all of them went like 'I want to be a project manager within 5 years time', 'I want to hold X number of patents' and shit like that.
I sat with a piece of blank paper in front of me.
Coz the only thing i want to be is happy.
And i had no idea how to draw happiness.
so i drew a stick figure with a big head and an even bigger smile (that was supposed to be me) standing nxt to a HUGE bookshelf full of the books i so badly want to read.
oh gosh just the other day i was just thinking about all those materialistic things of life...popularity, success, money and how obsessed people are w/ it (sadly..i think i'm one of those :/) but i swear we should seriously enjoy the little moments of life that make us smile! =]
and hey, this post of yours showed me a completely new side of you that i never knew! =]
a moment of glory. because that's what im here for.
hey, u shud go check my blog. something awaits u dere.
"tiny head"
ROFL!!!
and alright! ppl who r sick are the only ones who have the time to reflect such nonsense about ambition! Fine, we need to hang on to simple things, but more than a minute's contemplation cud have you wasting precious time... which u do ALOT!!
PS- I'm glad u did a volte face from the cribbing! Keep it up :P
PS PS- awww Nids sends u a dozen msgs a day!!? Either free msging or congrats! u have ur very own stalker!
just kidding! ;)
@krits--clouds eh? i'll bring you right down. hmph clouds indeed
@babs--LOLLLLLLLLLLLLzzz...free messaging...And I don't want you stealing my best friend... :P :P :P
@nikky: (I know who you are :P) Thanks a ton, honey! Do keep visiting :)
@dang: You're totally nuts!!!
@thor: OMG that is SO sweet :) Thanks for sharing this! And, uh, what awaits me???
@naita: We're all vicitms of materialism, hon. Its not just you! But I think you understood what I was trying to say =)
@amrita: Haha, well, fair enough =)
@bab: "tiny head" is merely a figure of speech. Hmph. And contemplation can never really be a waste of time *shakes head* Yea, I'm dreamy, I can't deny that!
And Nids msgd me that many times only when I was ill, dunderhead. She's nicer than you.
And she does have free messaging. :)
@nids: Clouds are REAL pretty. I would like to live in the clouds, yea. :P
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